Hello Adam,
I would agree with this statement, having played the drums for pretty much a quarter of century (ouch that hurt!), finding a system that can make a passable stab at recreating the immediacy, dynamic impact, skin resonance trailing note body and realness of a drum kit in full flight is very difficult.
In the same way recreating a 120 piece orchestra in full flight, you will need sheer scale,(effortless), dynamics, the ability to capture nuances, subtlety and the trait to be able to place the the Orchestra correctly.
Now in both cases, being very close to these events can be quite stark at best, the sheer force and scale of music, impact and rasp of brass, symbols, high energy impacts, in quick succession, strings in close proximity would be pretty intolerable for most listeners.
If you were able to genuine recreate this near field experience the vast majority of the UK hifi enthusiasts would run a mile.
Genuine drum kits, (with a drummer who knows his trade

) are incredibly dynamic, fast, sheer force impacts, symbols that can shimmer or crash, kick drums that can thump you in the chest, and this BEFORE amplification is thrown into the mix.
A while back we acquired a recording studio, hearing recordings as they happen is a real ear opener.
Now, paper cones give a natural, articulate and pleasing response right up-to the point the break up (usually in a good way), they never seem to get edgy on their break up point unless you are feeding them DC lol!
If you have genuinely heard a professional drummer (is there such a thing, I was always told we are guys that hang around with musicians

) in a studio or small room enviroment, the slam has amazing intimacy, incredible dynamics, and sheer impact force almost makes you recoil every time the skins are struck (if you are not use to this)
95% of hifi systems we have heard have not had the ability to approach this, those that do have a good go at it! but truly cannot represent it 'honestly'
The truth is very few people would want to hear it honestly, it would simply be 'too much'.
The resolution required, articulation, amplifier control, speaker ability and room interaction factors weigh heavily against this.
A few comments like Artificially tight bass?, constipated lower frequencies, completely un-natural bass, have been levelled at solid state amplification. Whether from a plucked double bass, a fender precision, a tuba or a kick drum etc.
Real genuine bass consists of the following, impact, dynamics, texture,articulation, lead edge and trailing edge note body, depth and placement and rhythmic intact.It should also be able to recreate the frequencies it is portraying, if that means a genuine sub 30Hz (providing the speaker is able to generate this) then it should be there.
For this it requires control, though not so controlled as the sound remains firmly routed in the speakers, it should be 'free' and and following from the speakers.
I can think of nothing worse than big wobbly soft, over full, artificially rich, bloated, mistimed, and plain unadulterated false bass and the truly bad one are 'blessed' with partial note formation
Just for the record we have valve amplifiaction here that can do all of the above well and we use them on a daily basis to much smile factoring too!
Basically it boils down to how you like your music, most like a good facsimile with 'their' tastes added it works for the individual and like all thing 'which aint broke' down fix it! However some of public like it 'real' so in the same way they have their 'taste'