Exactly.
Threads like this make me angry. They'd serve some purpose if the people of Britain valued service at the point of sale, but by and large we don't. We don't like to see charges for service, so the cost of service gets wrapped up into the price of the goods.
There's room in the market for all different types of approach - direct sales works for some companies, distribution & retail for others. If you are a consumer and you you want to buy from direct sellers then great, go ahead. But don't bitch and moan because something you've set your heart on is only available from a store because the manufacturer or distributor deems that as an important part of how they do business. And please, if you can't afford something then that's no excuse for complaining about "rip-offs".
The pursuit of "cheaper everything" isn't necessarily the answer. I think it's great that some niche brands are available direct. It adds diversity to the market, but I don't want to buy all my Hi-Fi like that!
It would be better if we had a thread focusing the dealers who are screwing up the Hi-Fi industry. I'm pretty lucky. I found a dealer who knows what they're doing and who isn't afraid to express a strong opinion. If your only experience of dealers is the type who will say anything to get your cash then I can sympathise how folk would feel ripped off.
So why not do something about that?!
If the service is poor and the dealer is only interested in your cash then get active. Tell them to change or they'll lose your custom. If things don't change then walk. It's that simple. You're next action is then to out the crap dealers. This should be done in a responsible way - no rants or childish bitching - this forum doesn't need a load of flak.