So, not quite so straightforward after all.
Yet, when I write I require a higher standard than stereo reproduction can give to feel emotionally connected to a performance it seems I’m odd in some way. 
Well, we all have different standards.
My stereo is fine for what I listen to which isn’t going to go down in history as great music and tbh really doesn’t require any great concentration to appreciate. A few repetitive chords, a bit of distortion and a beat is hardly a challenge to the average brain to process.
Of course, anyone is entitled to write "well listen to some decent music then", but I rather enjoy the crap I listen to partly because it doesn’t require any intellectual effort, or intense concentration to appreciate.
If others find that the average popular music track stretches their ability to assimilate the information to the extent that they have to sit still in front of their stereo to fully appreciate it then what can I tell you.
The thread was about confronting realities.
Single spur balanced Mains. Self built music server with 3 seperate linear PSU, Intel i5, 16 GB RAM no hard drive (various Linux OS). Benchmark Dac2 HGC, single ended XLR interconnects/Belkin cable. Exposure 21RC Pre, Super 18 Power (recap & modified). Modded World Audio HD83 HP amp. Hand built Monitors with external crossovers , Volt 250 bass & ABR, Scanspeak 13M8621 Mid & Scanspeak D2905/9300 Hi. HD595 & Beyer 880 (600 ohm) cans.
The whole problem with the world is that fools and fanatics are always so certain of themselves, and wiser people so full of doubts.
-Bertrand Russel
John.