For me, the defining sequence was being dumped when I was 15! Had spent the day with "her" listening to "love will tear us apart" on what seemed the most fantastic system...she was rich and we were poor,but we listened to that song probably 50 times that summer day... think she had an LP12 and other fab stuff...the notes floated in the air... we had a Goodmans. Got dumped soon after! Anyhow that sound/experience stuck and forever I've been chasing it.