My experience of high def is basically very easy to quantify ...
Where a well produced cd sounds good, the same album sounds fractionally more dynamic, with a lower noise flaw, a touch more detail, or at least the details seem more separate from the rest of the detail - sound are easier to pin point shall we say, and the overall presentation as a greater feeling of ease and naturalness. That's about it ... There in my experience is no change to how warm music sounds ... But I guess we have very different systems!
It is odd that you are experiencing such differences... Have you got the squeezebox set up right?it sound as though something is effecting the way it is playing music
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