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I'm Sandy.
Dating over 50! Websites and such...
You were very supportive when my marriage went tits up. And things not going badly there, yet.
Has anyone any experience of dating websites? They seem to be aimed at younger folk than me, and perhaps more socially adept. My mostly female and married colleagues are very encouraging that I ought to get out there...
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I'm Andrew.
Dont do GrindR!
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I'm Lawrence.
Don't do introduction agencies they're a scam. And I read that some websites charge a minimum period like a year (think it was Match.com) so if you meet someone quick you have to keep paying them even though you're not using them any more.
Have a free browse and see if anyone your age comes up, they should have an age filter of some sort if only a rough range.
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I'm Sandy.
They all seem to demand a "investment" ahead...Originally Posted by Lawrence001
You confirm my doubts.
I think grindr is a niche app for blokes seeking blokes, not that I have a problem with that, just not for me.
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It is, it's was meant as a joke for newbies doing dating sites.One to avoid if you like the ladies.
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Try joining a club. Such as a camera club, or U3A or a Bridge club. Can’t guarantee any “results”, but I have seen things work with U3A - even if only socially.
OTOH I know people who didn’t bother and not feeling so tied down, travelled in a camper van with a dog, and didn’t worry about women after their earlier experiences.
Depends really what you hope to achieve. Some of it is up to you.
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I'm Grant.
out of the fry pan...as they say.i became a widower but after thinking it over i decided i quite liked the loneliness and left it that way. it aint half bad.
Bingo
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I would agree with Dave, joining a club is worth trying. Just by starting with a common interest you're halfway there. You get to know the other person at an unforced pace, and in the company of others, so no need for it to feel awkward.
Similarly with night schools and adult college courses. I did a sports therapy course several years ago, and of the 12 people attending 5 were women, and all of them divorced. I wasn't in the market for a relationship - I genuinely wanted to learn - but I think some of the others were.
I wouldn't bother with anything hifi related, they're invariably a right sausage-fest
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I'm Sandy.
Sausage fest!!!!!I think a camera club would be the same.
Appropriate for "the frying pan" comment...
Bingo? Eh, Mecca? Perhaps I just need to get better at being in my own company. Or get a dog. And a van!
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I'm Grant.
cooking classes maybe... you get to learn some good stuff too. swimming too perhaps if you dont look too bad in trunks lol
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Oh my god! There's nothing wrong with the bidet is there?
“Nothing discloses real character like the use of power. It is easy for the weak to be gentle. Most people can bear adversity. But if you wish to know what a man really is, give him power. This is the supreme test. It is the glory of Lincoln that, having almost absolute power, he never abused it, except on the side of mercy".
“You see these dictators on their pedestals, surrounded by the bayonets of their soldiers and the truncheons of their police ... yet in their hearts there is unspoken fear. They are afraid of words and thoughts: words spoken abroad, thoughts stirring at home -- all the more powerful because forbidden -- terrify them. A little mouse of thought appears in the room, and even the mightiest potentates are thrown into panic.”
"You don't have free will. You have the appearance of free will.”
“There's a war out there, old friend. A world war. And it's not about who's got the most bullets. It's about who controls the information. What we see and hear, how we work, what we think... it's all about the information!”
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