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I'm Mike.
Just 'sign and recline', as Jermemy from Peep show once said.
Current system 1210 GR. CDP - Meridian G08. Amp -Sugden A21I - Sig. Wharfedale Lintons.
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Location: Adelaide, South Australia
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I'm Steve.
Amicable is good, my divorce ended up costing me 425 pounds.
Steve.
Kit I have:
CD player, TTs, Phono stages, Pre amps, Power amps, Integrated amps, DACs, Streamers, Speakers and a bunch of cables.
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Location: west mids, UK
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I'm Phil.
wish you all the best sandy
ou might slip, you might slide, you might
Stumble and fall by the road side
But don't you ever let nobody drag your spirit down
Remember you're walking up to heaven
Don't let nobody turn you around
… Walk with the rich, walk with the poor
Learn from everyone, that's what life is for
And don't you let nobody drag your spirit down
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I'm BigBobJoylove.
Exactly this.Originally Posted by nonuffin
Wants Macca's Babies
Location: Chorley Lancs
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I'm Steve.
Me and my wife are finally talking about divorce, after nearly 20 years apart. It will all be amicable, should be simple, and hopefully inexpensive.
We are currently having wills drawn up, where basically our house (where my wife lives) will go to our daughters. The house is divided into two, so if one of us has to go into residential care, the local authority can only get their hands on that half.
And all my other crap (motorbikes, hifi, records) goes to Mrs. P.
Simples!
I just dropped in, to see what condition my condition was in
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Speakers: Zu Omen Def, REL T9i subwoofer. Cables: Atlas Equator interconnects, Atlas Hyper 3.0 speaker cables
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Location: The Black Country
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I'm Alan.
We have changed our house ownership into Joint Tenants in Law. That way none of it is up for grabs fortunately.
I love Hendrix for so many reasons. He was so much more than just a blues guitarist - he played damn well any kind of guitar he wanted. In fact I'm not sure if he even played the guitar - he played music. - Stevie Ray Vaughan
Wants Macca's Babies
Location: Chorley Lancs
Posts: 14,742
I'm Steve.
That sounds better, I wonder why the solicitor didn't recommend that? Maybe our circumstances differ in some way. I'm seeing him Monday, I'll ask him and hopefully understand his reply
I just dropped in, to see what condition my condition was in
T/T: Inspire Monarch, X200 tonearm, Ortofon Quintet Blue. Phono: Project Tube Box CD: Marantz CD6006 (UK Edition); Amp: Musical Fidelity A5 Integrated.
Speakers: Zu Omen Def, REL T9i subwoofer. Cables: Atlas Equator interconnects, Atlas Hyper 3.0 speaker cables
T'other system:
Echo Dot, Amptastic Mini One,Arcam A75 integrated, Celestion 5's, BK XLS-200 DF
A/V:
LG 55" OLED, Panasonic Blu Ray, Sony a/v amp, MA Radius speakers, REL Storm sub
Forget the past, it's gone. And don't worry about the future, it doesn't exist. There is only NOW.
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Location: Powys, Wales
Posts: 334
I'm Sandy.
Things going well, I think.
Seeing kids regularly, go over weekly for a family meal, no hostilities.
Wants Macca's Babies
Location: Chorley Lancs
Posts: 14,742
I'm Steve.
That's great Sandy, I'm pleased for you
I just dropped in, to see what condition my condition was in
T/T: Inspire Monarch, X200 tonearm, Ortofon Quintet Blue. Phono: Project Tube Box CD: Marantz CD6006 (UK Edition); Amp: Musical Fidelity A5 Integrated.
Speakers: Zu Omen Def, REL T9i subwoofer. Cables: Atlas Equator interconnects, Atlas Hyper 3.0 speaker cables
T'other system:
Echo Dot, Amptastic Mini One,Arcam A75 integrated, Celestion 5's, BK XLS-200 DF
A/V:
LG 55" OLED, Panasonic Blu Ray, Sony a/v amp, MA Radius speakers, REL Storm sub
Forget the past, it's gone. And don't worry about the future, it doesn't exist. There is only NOW.
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Location: U.S.A. Neo-Socialist Kalifornski
Posts: 3,262
Sandy,
Let things cool down, it sounds as though they are beginning to.
Make an effort to tell her what good things you miss about her. You have children with her , history , had to be some good times to talk about too.
Refrain from negative comments and look inward. Ask her to meet you for lunch , discuss the kids.
If you miss your family ,express it. This break could be just what both of you needed to appreciate what was good in the relationship and give your marriage the respect of putting your family first. Yep, put your wife and kids 1st. If she sees you doing this she will also look in word . You both took vows had kids , be honorable at all cost .
And just maybe your wife will reach out to you . But for sure your kids will respect you .
Be humble admit fault where it is warranted , leave each encounter by thanking her for the time spent with each other .
After 6 months then both of you should decide how to move forward but don't either of you rush to an abrupt decision.
So many people regret not putting any effort into saving their marriage because over time they began to take each other for granted.
A broken family is never the best out come.
It is also much cheaper to keep her, so don't let your pride or ego get in the way of fixing whats fixable.
I say pride and ego because that is man kinds biggest enemy, and it can be a unforeseeable down fall.
Most of all ,I wish you and your family Love and kindness to each other during these hard times.
Jeff
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