Lol...
I admire your stance! We also resisted the 'big tele' thing for a while. The focal point in our living room is still our inglenook fireplace and wood burner, but there's a 46" (big enough but not too big to dominate) smart TV in one of the corners, which forms part of our home-cinema system (and to which the RPi adds a music function), as we love our movies too much, and like them reproduced as realistically as possible
However, quite simply, if you want to get the most out of Kodi, you *need* a smart TV, as apart from allowing the use of one remote control, to access your music library (the one for the TV), it syncs seamlessly with a smart TV and enhances your whole music-listening experience, especially viewing all the album cover-art in high-definition!
But I guess if you insist on slumming it....
Marco.
P.S On a rather different note, how dd you get on with sourcing your milk direct from the dairy? You never did say!