Bit busy at the moment, chaps, to contribute properly. However, some of today's posts have been interesting. For me, Dave (and also Alan with his earlier comments, which I'll get to later) hits the nail on the head here:
I completely, 110% agree!!
So what do you think has caused that problem? If I'd behaved that way, when I was a kid, my dad would've given me cuff behind the ear and apologised profusely to the person concerned, as he was very strict about teaching me good manners and how I should behave in public places.
Therefore, what's changed since in the attitude of parents, who seem both incapable of disciplining their children, when necessary, or seeing them do wrong? I've got my own thoughts on that, which I'll discuss later.
Marco.
Main System
Turntable: Heavily-modified Technics SL-1210MK5G [Mike New bearing/ETP platter/Paul Hynes SR7 PSU & reg mods]. Funk Firm APM Achromat/Nagaoka GL-601 Crystal Record Weight/Isonoe feet & boots/Ortofon RS-212D/Denon DL-103GL in Denon PCL-300 headshell with Funk Firm Houdini/Kondo SL-115 pure-silver cartridge leads.
Paul Hynes MC head amp/SR5 PSU. Also modded Lentek head amp/Denon AU-310 SUT.
Other Cartridges: Nippon Columbia (NOS 1987) Denon DL-103. USA-made Shure SC35C with NOS stylus. Goldring G820 with NOS stylus. Shure M55E with NOS stylus.
CD Player: Audiocom-modified Sony X-777ES/DAS-R1 DAC.
Tape Deck: Tandberg TCD 310, fully restored and recalibrated as new, by RDE, plus upgraded with heads from the TCD-420a. Also with matching TM4 Norway microphones.
Preamps: Heavily-modified Croft Charisma-X. LDR Stereo Coffee. Power Amps: Tube Distinctions Copper Amp fitted with Tungsol KT-150s. Quad 306.
Cables & Sundries: Mark Grant HDX1 interconnects and digital coaxial cable, plus Mark Grant 6mm UP-LCOFC Van Damme speaker cable. MCRU 'Ultimate' mains leads. Lehmann clone headphone amp with vintage Koss PRO-4AAA headphones.
Tube Distinctions digital noise filter. VPI HW16.5 record cleaning machine.
Speakers: Tannoy 15MGs in Lockwood cabinets with modified crossovers. 1967 Celestion Ditton 15.
Protect your HUMAN RIGHTS and REFUSE ANY *MANDATORY* VACCINE FOR COVID-19!
Also **SAY NO** to unjust 'vaccine passports' or certificates, which are totally incompatible with a FREE society!!!
The problem is the kids of the 60/70's generation were given carte blanche to get away with anything, as the antidote to the strict parental control of their parents.
Then the kids of kids came along, then the kids of kids of kids and the whole things FUBAR.
I'd buy that argument, were it not for the fact that I was a kid of the 60/70s, and fundamentally NOT "given carte blanche to get away with anything" - far from it!
Marco.
P.S Come on guys, let's have some more feedback on this. I'm sure you've all got plenty of views on the matter!
Main System
Turntable: Heavily-modified Technics SL-1210MK5G [Mike New bearing/ETP platter/Paul Hynes SR7 PSU & reg mods]. Funk Firm APM Achromat/Nagaoka GL-601 Crystal Record Weight/Isonoe feet & boots/Ortofon RS-212D/Denon DL-103GL in Denon PCL-300 headshell with Funk Firm Houdini/Kondo SL-115 pure-silver cartridge leads.
Paul Hynes MC head amp/SR5 PSU. Also modded Lentek head amp/Denon AU-310 SUT.
Other Cartridges: Nippon Columbia (NOS 1987) Denon DL-103. USA-made Shure SC35C with NOS stylus. Goldring G820 with NOS stylus. Shure M55E with NOS stylus.
CD Player: Audiocom-modified Sony X-777ES/DAS-R1 DAC.
Tape Deck: Tandberg TCD 310, fully restored and recalibrated as new, by RDE, plus upgraded with heads from the TCD-420a. Also with matching TM4 Norway microphones.
Preamps: Heavily-modified Croft Charisma-X. LDR Stereo Coffee. Power Amps: Tube Distinctions Copper Amp fitted with Tungsol KT-150s. Quad 306.
Cables & Sundries: Mark Grant HDX1 interconnects and digital coaxial cable, plus Mark Grant 6mm UP-LCOFC Van Damme speaker cable. MCRU 'Ultimate' mains leads. Lehmann clone headphone amp with vintage Koss PRO-4AAA headphones.
Tube Distinctions digital noise filter. VPI HW16.5 record cleaning machine.
Speakers: Tannoy 15MGs in Lockwood cabinets with modified crossovers. 1967 Celestion Ditton 15.
Protect your HUMAN RIGHTS and REFUSE ANY *MANDATORY* VACCINE FOR COVID-19!
Also **SAY NO** to unjust 'vaccine passports' or certificates, which are totally incompatible with a FREE society!!!
Born 1968 we were brought up to be well-behaved and only speak when we were spoken to. like Joe say we were not interested in the adults and they were not interested in us. That is a psychologically healthy situation.
When I met up with one of my brothers and his 2 children the other week I was pleased to note that my nephew refused to come and say hello and instead stayed sat watching the telly. He will grow up to be a capable, balanced individual.
Current Lash Up:
TEAC VRDS 701T > Sony TAE1000ESD > Krell KSA50S > JM Labs Focal Electra 926.
I think Alan is at least 10 years out with his theory.
I was born in 1958 (first birth in Preston that year) and so was a child of the sixties. Boredom was never a word ever used, and the only times I ever felt boredom was when my dad would leave me in the van for an hour or so when he was out seeing customers and he had nowhere else to put me.
We made our own entertainment, always outside regardless of the time of year. My friends were never allowed into our house, and I never got to see the inside of theirs. Teatime and a bit of telly in the evenings were the only time spent with parents. I made my own breakfast and got myself off to school.
As for 'quality time' with parents, I remember being taken to the cinema about 3 or 4 times. Lady and the Tramp, Zulu, Carry on Up the Khyber, and that was it. I think we had a day trip to Blackpool or Lytham once a year.
Sounds a bit bleak, but actually it was great. And we really didn't know any different.
We weren't angels, but we understood and accepted the rules: get caught and you get a thick ear. which happened frequently, from the local copper, the farmer, or the slipper from the headmaster.
Something must have happened in the eighties some child abuse probably, and the knee-jerk reaction has been to do away with all forms of corporal punishment. So kids were safe from any physical chastisement - and don't they know it! They can be shitheads to their little hearts' content, safe in the knowledge there ain't a damn thing we can do to them.
I'm betting that child molesting is no more commonplace these days, but the availability of information and increased reporting makes it seem so. Parents are now scared to let their precious bundles out of their sight, and to combat the inevitable boredom the kids now feel as they're pretty much stuck with their parents 24/7, the parents indulge them far more than is good for them, giving kids an inflated sense of their own importance.
When these kids 'grow up' and finally see that the world is largely a shit place compared to the bubble they were brought up in, they will develop all kinds of mental and nervous problems. Say hello to the Snowflake Generation. And then they'll have kids of their own, and these kids will have the same anodyne upbringing thanks to their fucked up parents.
Of course there'll be exceptions - my daughters are little princesses!
I just dropped in, to see what condition my condition was in
T/T: Inspire Monarch, X200 tonearm, Ortofon Quintet Blue. Phono: Project Tube Box CD: Marantz CD6006 (UK Edition); Amp: Musical Fidelity A5 Integrated.
Speakers: Zu Omen Def, REL T9i subwoofer. Cables: Atlas Equator interconnects, Atlas Hyper 3.0 speaker cables
T'other system:
Echo Dot, Amptastic Mini One,Arcam A75 integrated, Celestion 5's, BK XLS-200 DF
A/V:
LG 55" OLED, Panasonic Blu Ray, Sony a/v amp, MA Radius speakers, REL Storm sub
Forget the past, it's gone. And don't worry about the future, it doesn't exist. There is only NOW.
KICKSTARTER: ENABLING SCAMMERS SINCE 2009
Sounds familiar, although our holidays were in a rented flat in Llandudno. Really basic place in a back street but we loved it and as you say we knew no different. One year the old man got a few quid as the share of an Aunties' house and we went to Majorca for two weeks and stayed in a proper hotel. Which was good but it was back to Llandudno the next year and no-one complained.
Weekends we did not dream of waking up my mam and dad, you'd go downstairs and make your own tea and toast and watch the telly. I was doing that from about 6 years old. A friend of mine her lad is 8 and she won't dream of letting him near the kettle or the toaster - we used to cook our toast under the gas grill that you had to light with a match! Had to climb up on a stool to reach it.
Never a problem because we were independent and capable from a very young age whereas this lad of my friends can do nothing for himself. When he gets up on a Saturday morning she has to get up as well because he is totally incapable of acting for himself. Round here 150 years ago he would already be finished with school age six and be out doing hard manual work 6 days a week 12 hours a day. And he can't even boil the kettle.
Like you say, snowflake generation.
Current Lash Up:
TEAC VRDS 701T > Sony TAE1000ESD > Krell KSA50S > JM Labs Focal Electra 926.
Location: gone away
Posts: 4,870
I'm joe.
Every generation thinks the world's going to Hell in a handcart, and every generation dates the decline from just after their own childhood. This thread is a perfect illustration of that.
Good post Martin.
Sums up my feelings exactly. I don't really care if the pub is 'posh', or whether is one of the more 'characterful' pubs described above. All I ask is a decent beer that is well looked after and is served by someone at the bar who is welcoming, helpful and polite.
As to the clientele, if they choose to give me the 'cold shoulder' as a newcomer and stranger, or are intimidating, well that is their problem - I will just drink up and be on my way: I detest pubs that are run by the locals.
Barry