Originally Posted by
Marco
I think you've summed up the difference perfectly, and I would add that the other key issue is Howard pitched the subject in a completely non-arrogant way which wasn't offensive to people or likely to get their back's up. Perhaps if Ashley or JC had adopted this approach then they wouldn't have encountered the problems they did!
Like I've said all along, it's about treating people (and their opinions) with the due respect and courtesy they deserve; anything other than that is liable to result in confrontation and lots of ill-feeling which is exactly what happened.