I have to say Happy is very neat and tidy about the house. When she comes in, she takes off her boots and hands them to me to polish them!
I often do the washing (or rather let the machine do it) and will also do the ironing; and if the washing has included her clothes, will iron them as well and put them away in her wardrobe(s) and drawers. Happy is neither coy or 'private' about any of that. I do let her iron the bed sheets as I hate doing that.
The only time she is messy is when she cooks - it looks like a bomb has exploded in the kitchen! And since we have a house rule: "They that cook, do not wash up afterwards", means I have to clear up the mess. Since we roughly alternate cooking roles, she gets the better deal, as I clear up as I cook.

