The key part of that sentence is 'used to be'. He'll be 59 on Sunday.
He's very thoughtful with family though - even when my youngest brother, who was keeping Tony's share of our inheritance in his bank, spent most of it (about £22,000), he didn't get punched. And Tony knows he will never get that money back.
I'm just glad I spent my share sharpish (half of it on me stereo).

