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Firebottle
06-10-2025, 14:51
It is with a heavy heart that I pass on the news of Gary’s death.
He had health issue for quite some time, I recall a long and particularly frustrating period for Gary when his blood count would fluctuate wildly, seemingly with a complete disregard for any medication that was being taken.
To his credit when in discussion with his consultant he would forcefully reject (F… that) suggested treatment(s) as he knew his own body a whole lot better than any professional. I admired his stance when confronting the medical profession, in fact his irreverence for authority in general.

In more recent times Gary was fitted with a pacemaker but with a built in defibrillator to keep things ‘going’. One time he told me he was doing some sort of physical work and his heart rate climbed rapidly causing the defibrillator to activate. I can’t remember his exact words but it was something along the lines of ‘being kicked in the chest by a horse’, but he laughed about it afterwards.

I first met Gary through hifi but we quickly became good friends through our shared sense of humour, particularly about the whacky and ridiculous.
Shirley and I met Gary and Caroline on numerous occasions for pub lunches and a good time was had by all.

Gary was also very passionate about cars and once gave me a thrilling ride in his Caterham, both of us with skid lids on. It was glued to the road, quite an experience.

I shall miss him.

Alex_UK
06-10-2025, 15:10
Sorry to hear that, Alan, condolences to you and Gary’s friends and family.

hifi_dave
06-10-2025, 15:43
God bless Gary.

Barry
06-10-2025, 15:48
Sad news indeed. Stryder5's avatar always made me smile (taken, I think, from Andrei Tarkovsky's film 'Stalker').

Our condolences to his family.

Wakefield Turntables
06-10-2025, 17:12
Sad news indeed and Lurch as well, two in two days. :(

Pigmy Pony
06-10-2025, 18:00
Lurch as well? Oh dear. At the Wam shows we'd often chat while outside having a cig break... I never met Gary, but I echo Alex's words. RIP guys.

Macca
06-10-2025, 18:14
RIP to both. Sad news.

CageyH
07-10-2025, 07:49
Sad news.
I never met Gary, but he was kind enough to send me a Supra 2 USB cable many years ago.
Another one of the good guys gone.

Jimbo
07-10-2025, 08:54
Very sad to hear this news. I spoke with Gary on a number of occasions and he was always a great chap to speak too.

My sincere condolences to his family.

Puffin
13-10-2025, 10:18
I never knew or met Gary, but met Lurch at a Tonbridge audiojumble some years ago. He invited me to one of his bake offs but I didn't get the chance to go.

The Black Adder
13-10-2025, 14:21
Very sad to hear this. Sending his family and friends my condolences.

R.I.P Gary.

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ReggieB
13-10-2025, 16:17
Sad news. Thank you for passing it on.