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kirstysdad
26-06-2023, 16:38
:doh:

I am such a fool.

Why wouldn't you date a single, never been married 48yr old woman with no kids? ( I am 60 btw, so not a silly wee boy)


Asking for a friend. :doh:

Pigmy Pony
26-06-2023, 17:21
:doh:

I am such a fool.

Why wouldn't you date a single, never been married 48yr old woman with no kids? ( I am 60 btw, so not a silly wee boy)


Asking for a friend. :doh:

Hmm, only your er, friend can answer that. So many questions: Does she live in a shop doorway? Does she look like Les Dawson? Has she spent her adult life in prison? Is she a Coldplay fan?

Lawrence001
26-06-2023, 17:55
I'd want to know why she's never married or had kids, could be a valid reason, equally could be a warning sign.

Macca
26-06-2023, 20:02
I know a couple of women that sort of age who have never married. They struggle with commitment, nothing more sinister than that.

Less common in women than men but it happens.

Of course it could just be because she's bat shit crazy.

Lawrence001
26-06-2023, 22:12
It was the lack of commitment I was thinking of. If you're 60 I'd imagine you don't want to be given the runaround.

Having said that I don't know how old Sandy's friend is.

Pigmy Pony
27-06-2023, 06:12
It was the lack of commitment I was thinking of. If you're 60 I'd imagine you don't want to be given the runaround.

Having said that I don't know how old Sandy's friend is.

He's 60, so not a wee boy ;)

kirstysdad
27-06-2023, 09:38
And the prize goes to... pretty much all of the above, thanks gents. Except not the Les Dawson thing, actually quite pretty.

"I'd want to know why she's never married or had kids, could be a valid reason, equally could be a warning sign"
"Of course it could just be because she's bat shit crazy"

Firebottle
27-06-2023, 09:46
Go for it Sandy, you know you want to..

Mikeandvan
27-06-2023, 10:00
My last but one girlfriend turned out to be a crack whore!:lol:

Lawrence001
27-06-2023, 11:49
Lucky you!

struth
27-06-2023, 12:04
My last but one girlfriend turned out to be a crack whore!:lol:

is that a whore with a big, erm... crack??

Mikeandvan
27-06-2023, 19:29
is that a whore with a big, erm... crack??

No, it's a prostitute addicted to drugs.

ReggieB
27-06-2023, 19:57
I was under the impression that if you made it clear you're an audiophile and available, you'd have to beat them off with a stick.

Macca
27-06-2023, 20:01
I was under the impression that if you made it clear you're an audiophile and available, you'd have to beat them off with a stick.

we probably rank lower on the dateable scale than the crack hoe.

Although I don't personally identify as an audiophile my living rooms a bit of a dead giveaway.

Pigmy Pony
27-06-2023, 20:54
My last but one girlfriend turned out to be a crack whore!:lol:

She's probably on Cracknet.com forum saying her ex-boyfriend turned out to be a speakers whore :ner:

Pigmy Pony
27-06-2023, 21:10
I was under the impression that if you made it clear you're an audiophile and available, you'd have to beat them off with a stick.

Our popularity has dropped off a cliff now that there are teenage boys locked away in their bedrooms with computer games. That's what the birds go for these days.

struth
27-06-2023, 21:39
Our popularity has dropped off a cliff now that there are teenage boys locked away in their bedrooms with computer games. That's what the birds go for these days.We just played records. No computers in them days.

Pigmy Pony
27-06-2023, 21:47
We just played records. No computers in them days.

But girls back then didn't have social media to gawp at, so listening to records could be acceptable. Especially if your collection included Simon & Garfunkel's Greatest Hits.

Mikeandvan
27-06-2023, 22:09
I was under the impression that if you made it clear you're an audiophile and available, you'd have to beat them off with a stick.

I think my last girlfriend left me cos she hated jazz.

Mikeandvan
27-06-2023, 22:10
She's probably on Cracknet.com forum saying her ex-boyfriend turned out to be a speakers whore :ner:

Nah, I seen her a few months back with a black eye, hehehehehe. Yeh, she's that sort.

struth
27-06-2023, 22:13
Better with a nice bottle of scotch. Women nag too much unless you get lucky [emoji24]

Macca
28-06-2023, 05:29
But girls back then didn't have social media to gawp at, so listening to records could be acceptable. Especially if your collection included Simon & Garfunkel's Greatest Hits.

Spandau Ballet in my day.

Pigmy Pony
28-06-2023, 05:37
Spandau Ballet in my day.

True! :D

Macca
28-06-2023, 06:11
True! :D

Gold.

Macca
28-06-2023, 06:13
my brother Phil (who was known as 'Swiss Phil' since he never failed) recommends Simply Red 'Stars'.

struth
28-06-2023, 13:43
Ocean drive from lighthouse family was a good un too

Sherwood
28-06-2023, 13:52
I know a couple of women that sort of age who have never married. They struggle with commitment, nothing more sinister than that.

Less common in women than men but it happens.

Of course it could just be because she's bat shit crazy.

maybe you scared them off!

Sherwood
28-06-2023, 13:55
You know, judging by some of the comments on this thread, I don't think re-entering the dating market would be a good idea. Not for them or their prospective partners/victims! :rolleyes:

struth
28-06-2023, 14:00
You know, judging by some of the comments on this thread, I don't think re-entering the dating market would be a good idea. Not for them or their prospective partners/victims! :rolleyes:I'm too old and no need to either or opportunity either. If you feel the need tho then fair enough as long as it's emotional companionship mainly.
Trouble as you get older is, not only are you more set in YOUR WAYS but SHE WILL BE IN HERS TOO [emoji23]

Pigmy Pony
28-06-2023, 17:15
my brother Phil (who was known as 'Swiss Phil' since he never failed) recommends Simply Red 'Stars'.

Nothing to do with the yodelling then.

Macca
28-06-2023, 17:16
maybe you scared them off!

lol - just friends - I've never been romantically involved with them.

I don't do commitment very well either. I've always run a mile from the whole marriage and having children thing. My idea of hell.

kirstysdad
28-06-2023, 17:19
Spandau Ballet in my day.

I had the Tony Hadley look until I got old, fat and baldy!

kirstysdad
28-06-2023, 17:21
You know, judging by some of the comments on this thread, I don't think re-entering the dating market would be a good idea. Not for them or their prospective partners/victims! :rolleyes:

I suspect you have hit the nail on the proverbial there!

Pigmy Pony
28-06-2023, 17:43
I suspect you have hit the nail on the proverbial there!

Maybe, maybe not. Show your prospective ladyfriend this thread to show her how we all think about this, and if it doesn't make her smile, it wasn't meant to be.

struth
28-06-2023, 17:47
this c an be the result of aged dating:ner:


https://youtu.be/BPdWJq5KI9E

Barry
28-06-2023, 19:54
I suspect you have hit the nail on the proverbial there!
Exactly - which is why I have steered clear of this thread. Some of the replies have been disgracefully 'blokish'! :doh:

Macca
28-06-2023, 20:10
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pInk1rV2VEg

Lawrence001
28-06-2023, 21:24
Maybe AoS needs a pub car park area like the Wam, so those who don't want to read such material can steer clear. I wonder if Marco would approve...

Pigmy Pony
29-06-2023, 05:56
Exactly - which is why I have steered clear of this thread. Some of the replies have been disgracefully 'blokish'! :doh:

Which replies? The ones about Simon & Garfunkel, Spandau ballet, Simply Red? Gawping at social media? Fear of commitment on the part of one or two members? I've gone back through these posts, and I disagree - mostly self-disparaging I would say.

38 posts in three days! If someone can come up with something else to discuss (I can't think of anything right now), I'm sure it would be welcomed.

Oh and in Chorley it's currently a sunny 15C in case you were wondering :rolleyes:

struth
29-06-2023, 06:30
Can't say I saw anything ooo.

Pigmy Pony
29-06-2023, 06:59
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pInk1rV2VEg

This one came after your reply Barry, so doesn't count :D

Anyway, for so long men have been shouted down for daring to poke fun at the opposite sex, while at the same time have been fair game for those keen to point out 'what's wrong with men' :( This video helps redress the balance, or justifies the existence of the "All men are tossers" camp, depending on your viewpoint.

I also find it pretty funny, and if that makes me a misogynist I can live with that :)

Mikeandvan
29-06-2023, 10:11
Which replies? The ones about Simon & Garfunkel, Spandau ballet, Simply Red? Gawping at social media? Fear of commitment on the part of one or two members? I've gone back through these posts, and I disagree - mostly self-disparaging I would say.

38 posts in three days! If someone can come up with something else to discuss (I can't think of anything right now), I'm sure it would be welcomed.

Oh and in Chorley it's currently a sunny 15C in case you were wondering :rolleyes:

May be it was my dear beloved old crack whore? I only offered it as a cautionary tale.

Macca
29-06-2023, 17:10
May be it was my dear beloved old crack whore? I only offered it as a cautionary tale.

Jut factual reporting, they can't get you on that.

kirstysdad
29-06-2023, 17:34
Exactly - which is why I have steered clear of this thread. Some of the replies have been disgracefully 'blokish'! :doh:

Opening a bottle of wine myself now...

As the OP, I expected some blokish comments and understand others have different experiences, and sense of humour. I have taken all as coming from a desire to be supportive.

I have found the responses to the "revisited" post sympathetic and encouraging. The same when my marriage failed and I posted here. On a "blokometer" they've been a damn sight less misogynistic here than some I received on a (respectable) motorcycle forum.
So thank you one and all. Please don't fall out.

kirstysdad
29-06-2023, 17:43
Maybe AoS needs a pub car park area like the Wam, so those who don't want to read such material can steer clear. I wonder if Marco would approve...

I wouldn't have brought my experience to the pub car park.
I have found the support here respectful of my experiences and in the past no-one ever indulged in derogatory comments about my ex. You have made supportive observations, I know. I have interpreted the humour used here as self deprecating, and others have been open about their negative experiences in a safe space.

Please don't fall out.

struth
29-06-2023, 17:50
marco wouldnt have got upset, no.. or as he would say... :nono::bonk:

Pigmy Pony
29-06-2023, 19:49
I wouldn't have brought my experience to the pub car park.
I have found the support here respectful of my experiences and in the past no-one ever indulged in derogatory comments about my ex. You have made supportive observations, I know. I have interpreted the humour used here as self deprecating, and others have been open about their negative experiences in a safe space.

Please don't fall out.

Nobody's falling out Sandy :)

Going back to your OP, My view FWIW, is if there's a chance she can make you (or your mate ;)) happy, go for it. Don't let past experiences make you over-cautious - we're a long time dead...

Lawrence001
29-06-2023, 19:58
38 posts in three days! If someone can come up with something else to discuss (I can't think of anything right now), I'm sure it would be welcomed.

Just out of interest, who thinks expensive cables are better than cheap ones?

Also I've been wondering, do better measuring DACs actually sound better?

Pigmy Pony
29-06-2023, 20:05
Just out of interest, who thinks expensive cables are better than cheap ones?

Also I've been wondering, do better measuring DACs actually sound better?

Go onto Mumsnet and ask them what they think :)

Barry
29-06-2023, 20:22
Just out of interest, who thinks expensive cables are better than cheap ones?

Also I've been wondering, do better measuring DACs actually sound better?

I don't, but then I usually make up my own.

As to your second question - I don't know: I have only ever tried two 'stand alone' DACS. One was useless (it distorted on peaks), the second was different, but no better than the internal DAC of the CDP I was using. That said, I am still interested in using an external DAC with my Levinson 390 CD player.

kirstysdad
29-06-2023, 20:41
Just out of interest, who thinks expensive cables are better than cheap ones?

Also I've been wondering, do better measuring DACs actually sound better?

Now I'm thinking that is not helpful of sympathetic.

kirstysdad
29-06-2023, 20:43
I don't, but then I usually make up my own.

As to your second question - I don't know: I have only ever tried two 'stand alone' DACS. One was useless (it distorted on peaks), the second was different, but no better than the internal DAC of the CDP I was using. That said, I am still interested in using an external DAC with my Levinson 390 CD player.

As before, not relevant. Really? Not for this bit of the forum? You are a moderator?

kirstysdad
29-06-2023, 20:46
Is there an issue here about a man wanting to discuss emotional stuff?? I am getting conflicting messages. Can't we keep the techy stuff in some places and other stuff somewhere else??

Barry
29-06-2023, 21:01
Now I'm thinking that is not helpful or sympathetic.

Why? You appeared to be content with the replies to your original post. Lawrence asked a question, which perhaps should have been posted elsewhere, but it was posted here, and as such was given a reply.

Thread drift is not uncommon on AoS: in fact we are notorious for it.

Barry
29-06-2023, 21:21
As before, not relevant. Really? Not for this bit of the forum? You are a moderator?

Yes I am a moderator.

"Not for this bit of the forum?" No one here 'owns' a thread. You asked a question and were given several replies, which may or may not have been helpful to you. What more do you want? - this is not an 'agony aunt' forum.

For my part - I see nothing wrong with anyone dating a younger partner. In my case my partner is 7 years younger than me.

Only you, or your friend, can answer whether the relationship feels 'right', we can't do it for you.

Pigmy Pony
29-06-2023, 21:38
Easy to say age doesn't matter, but sometimes it does. It really depends on what each of you are wanting from your relationship, and your own personal circumstances. The main one probably being health.

BTW my partner is 11 years younger than me (54 vs. 65), but living with me has aged her to the point where she may have caught up with me ;)

Pigmy Pony
29-06-2023, 21:45
Now I'm thinking that is not helpful of sympathetic.

I think Lawrence was just being humorous, and not knowingly drifting the thread, hence my reply.

Lawrence001
29-06-2023, 22:56
Yes Steve said he couldn't think of something else to talk about so I picked some subjects that usually lead to heated arguments on other forums, in the hope of winding some people up, but we're too nice on here to beat each other up over an opinion on hifi. Well usually anyway.

Funnily enough my wife is 10/11 years younger than me too depending on which month it is.

Mikeandvan
29-06-2023, 23:30
Yes Steve said he couldn't think of something else to talk about so I picked some subjects that usually lead to heated arguments on other forums, in the hope of winding some people up, but we're too nice on here to beat each other up over an opinion on hifi. Well usually anyway.

Funnily enough my wife is 10/11 years younger than me too depending on which month it is.

One decade in your favour is good, two is exceptional, three is head turning, four is sex offender territory.

Macca
30-06-2023, 05:15
Al Pacino's just knocked up a bird 59 years younger than he is. Although in fairness he has executed a police captain in a crowded restaurant and not many of us have done that either.

struth
30-06-2023, 07:23
Al Pacino's just knocked up a bird 59 years younger than he is. Although in fairness he has executed a police captain in a crowded restaurant and not many of us have done that either.

yes but he is loaded... shes not going out with him for his charm;)

walpurgis
30-06-2023, 07:27
yes but he is loaded... shes not going out with him for his charm;)

And now she's got him by his financial knackers.

struth
30-06-2023, 07:34
And now she's got him by his financial knackers.

he'll pop his clogs soon no doubt. sure he will die happy tho; i would:eyebrows:

struth
30-06-2023, 08:02
oh and she is about 54 years younger. 29 to 83. lucky he can still manage it at his age; dirty git. his other kids are appaently less than impressed..

walpurgis
30-06-2023, 08:22
oh and she is about 54 years younger. 29 to 83. lucky he can still manage it at his age; dirty git. his other kids are appaently less than impressed..

Worried about denting their inheritance.

struth
30-06-2023, 08:30
Worried about denting their inheritance.

probably at bottom of it, yes...

kirstysdad
01-07-2023, 17:56
"Not for this bit of the forum?" No one here 'owns' a thread. You asked a question and were given several replies, which may or may not have been helpful to you. What more do you want? - this is not an 'agony aunt' forum.

For my part - I see nothing wrong with anyone dating a younger partner. In my case my partner is 7 years younger than me.

Only you, or your friend, can answer whether the relationship feels 'right', we can't do it for you.

Of course you are right on all those points Barry. Surely it's ok to run stuff past other blokes? Or bloke-esses? Yeah, it's a hifi forum, but this is an off topic space. I am sorry if you thought I was using it as a "agony aunt" column, whatever you mean by that.

Lots of blokes find it difficult to ask for confirmation of their experiences, some commit suicide because they feel isolated and criticised by their peers, many many more just get depressed and take their meds...

I regret any discomfort that I have caused anyone reading my posts and the posts that others have made in good humour.

Barry
01-07-2023, 18:32
Hello Sandy,

I confess I was probably a bit 'blunt' in my post - my apologies.


The wording of your original post was sparse, and somewhat ambiguous:

"I am such a fool.

Why wouldn't you date a single, never been married 48yr old woman with no kids? (I am 60 btw, so not a silly wee boy)

Asking for a friend."

The age difference is largely irrelevant - a couple of Members here have partners 10 years or more younger than them, and in my case my partner is 7 years younger than me.

The question only you can answer (and I assume the last sentence in your OP is a humorous 'throw away') is why should the woman not want to go on a date? Just because she is not married, and possibly because of that, does not have children, doesn't mean she is not interested in men.

Go on a date with her and find out what her interests are, what her aspirations are, and see if they tally with yours, if there is some common ground. If they do, then the field is open to further dates - if they don't then you will have lost nothing.

Good luck

ATB
Barry

kirstysdad
01-07-2023, 20:12
Hello Sandy,

I confess I was probably a bit 'blunt' in my post - my apologies.


The wording of your original post was sparse, and somewhat ambiguous:

"I am such a fool.

Why wouldn't you date a single, never been married 48yr old woman with no kids? (I am 60 btw, so not a silly wee boy)

Asking for a friend."

The age difference is largely irrelevant - a couple of Members here have partners 10 years or more younger than them, and in my case my partner is 7 years younger than me.

The question only you can answer (and I assume the last sentence in your OP is a humorous 'throw away') is why should the woman not want to go on a date? Just because she is not married, and possibly because of that, does not have children, doesn't mean she is not interested in men.

Go on a date with her and find out what her interests are, what her aspirations are, and see if they tally with yours, if there is some common ground. If they do, then the field is open to further dates - if they don't then you will have lost nothing.

Good luck

ATB
Barry

Thanks Barry. Genuinely.

Like many blokes I talk about stuff in humorous terms, but FWIW I am as confused and fucked up trying to work out the opposite sex as I was 40 yrs ago!

I use humour as a defence against anxiety and uncertainty apparently...

Reply appreciated.

goraman
24-07-2023, 19:45
I have a neighbor my ageish , 57 or so.
Batshit crazy ,mean sreak a mile wide, laughs when a toddler fall and gets a skined knee!
Threatened to turn me in to animal control for giving a neighborhood squirrel some peanuts.
Can I get any willing takers to romance her and take her to the other side of the world with them.
She is the absolute mean old spinster by definition.
I can figure out pretty fast, as well as the whole neighborhood why she has never been married.

Macca
24-07-2023, 19:59
You're not selling it mate.

Has she got a few bob? Might tip the balance.

Mikeandvan
24-07-2023, 22:36
I have a neighbor my ageish , 57 or so.
Batshit crazy ,mean sreak a mile wide, laughs when a toddler fall and gets a skined knee!
Threatened to turn me in to animal control for giving a neighborhood squirrel some peanuts.
Can I get any willing takers to romance her and take her to the other side of the world with them.
She is the absolute mean old spinster by definition.
I can figure out pretty fast, as well as the whole neighborhood why she has never been married.

Do you fancy her ? I mean, she's fifty, horrible, but is she hot? I mean, what is the point of your comment? Is she a crack whore by any chance? If so, give her a wide berth.

Pigmy Pony
25-07-2023, 05:59
Do you fancy her ? I mean, she's fifty, horrible, but is she hot? I mean, what is the point of your comment? Is she a crack whore by any chance? If so, give her a wide berth.

Reading between the lines, I suspect there's a bit of chemistry between Jeff and the crazy old bint. Just marry her mate and be done with it ;)

Mikeandvan
25-07-2023, 23:30
Reading between the lines, I suspect there's a bit of chemistry between Jeff and the crazy old bint. Just marry her mate and be done with it ;)

No sir, I do protest strongly against marrying a crack whore, let alone being being merely associated with one.

Pigmy Pony
26-07-2023, 06:12
No sir, I do protest strongly against marrying a crack whore, let alone being being merely associated with one.

I don't actually know any, so I'll have to take your word for it.

Macca
26-07-2023, 17:21
Used to be a bird down out street who was a smack dealer. Got busted in the end. She was a bit rough but I quite fancied her.

I have a thing for criminal women I don't know where that comes from. I also used to fancy that Kelly off of 'Prisoner- Cell Block H.' My girlfriend at the time was not comfortable with that.

struth
26-07-2023, 17:40
Used to be a bird down out street who was a smack dealer. Got busted in the end. She was a bit rough but I quite fancied her.

I have a thing for criminal women I don't know where that comes from. I also used to fancy that Kelly off of 'Prisoner- Cell Block H.' My girlfriend at the time was not comfortable with that.

vaguely remember her. mum watch prisoner cell block h. a lot.. was lateish on i think. same girl was in another aussie show; flying doctors, or summat like that i think.

Macca
26-07-2023, 18:04
vaguely remember her. mum watch prisoner cell block h. a lot.. was lateish on i think. same girl was in another aussie show; flying doctors, or summat like that i think.

Think it was channel 4 about 2330 or something, It was on after the pub kicked out I know that.

The Aussies used to have a knack of making shows that were crap but somehow still quite watchable. Like 'Chopper Squad', 'Bluey', 'The Sullivans', Paul Hogan Show etc

Mikeandvan
26-07-2023, 20:35
Think it was channel 4 about 2330 or something, It was on after the pub kicked out I know that.

The Aussies used to have a knack of making shows that were crap but somehow still quite watchable. Like 'Chopper Squad', 'Bluey', 'The Sullivans', Paul Hogan Show etc

You forgot Neighbours.

Macca
26-07-2023, 20:45
You forgot Neighbours.

yeah sure there's a few others I forgot.

Pigmy Pony
26-07-2023, 22:20
Skippy the Bush Kangaroo and The Magic Boomerang.

Mikeandvan
26-07-2023, 22:49
yeah sure there's a few others I forgot.

I can't believe I actually used to watch that crap!!

CageyH
27-07-2023, 16:29
Skippy the Bush Kangaroo and The Magic Boomerang.

“What’s that Skippy?
PigmyPony was spotted at KirstysDads neighbours house, asking her if she was a crack whore?
Crikey Skippy”

Macca
27-07-2023, 17:33
'Skippy' was unwatchable IIRC

Quite a few shows with exactly the same premise - 'Champion The Wonder Horse', 'Flipper', 'Lassie'.

All lame rubbish even for a 5 year old.

struth
27-07-2023, 17:47
'Skippy' was unwatchable IIRC

Quite a few shows with exactly the same premise - 'Champion The Wonder Horse', 'Flipper', 'Lassie'.

All lame rubbish even for a 5 year old.

there were 9 of them by way..lol.... it was good in its day and an early environmental program i guess as well as a kids show.


save the roos

Macca
27-07-2023, 19:25
there were 9 of them by way..lol.... it was good in its day and an early environmental program i guess as well as a kids show.


save the roos

Not for me, when any of those shows came on it was time to change channels or do something else.

Pigmy Pony
27-07-2023, 22:20
Not for me, when any of those shows came on it was time to change channels or do something else.

Yeah well when you were a nipper there would have been more choice. When me and Grant were kids that's all there was. Changing channels would have been pointless.

Macca
28-07-2023, 05:53
Yeah well when you were a nipper there would have been more choice. When me and Grant were kids that's all there was. Changing channels would have been pointless.

lol I am younger but not by that much! We only had BBC1, BBC2 and ITV same as you and BBC2 didn't start broadcasting until around mid-day.

Pages From Ceefax, remember that?

Pigmy Pony
28-07-2023, 05:58
“What’s that Skippy?
PigmyPony was spotted at KirstysDads neighbours house, asking her if she was a crack whore?
Crikey Skippy”

Tch-tch-cch-tch! Translation: "Strewth Cagey! Can't a roo 'ave any secrets? Been hard for Piggurs since his old man shot through, and compared to the other Sheilas round here the crack whore is fair dinkum"

CageyH
28-07-2023, 07:28
Tch-tch-cch-tch! Translation: "Strewth Cagey! Can't a roo 'ave any secrets? Been hard for Piggurs since his old man shot through, and compared to the other Sheilas round here the crack whore is fair dinkum"

:lol:

struth
28-07-2023, 07:31
lol I am younger but not by that much! We only had BBC1, BBC2 and ITV same as you and BBC2 didn't start broadcasting until around mid-day.

Pages From Ceefax, remember that?Had to get a new telly to get bbc2.

Lawrence001
28-07-2023, 09:35
Used to be a bird down out street who was a smack dealer. Got busted in the end. She was a bit rough but I quite fancied her.

I have a thing for criminal women I don't know where that comes from. I also used to fancy that Kelly off of 'Prisoner- Cell Block H.' My girlfriend at the time was not comfortable with that.You're like those girls that can't help going out with bad boys lol

Pigmy Pony
28-07-2023, 19:35
You're like those girls that can't help going out with bad boys lol

Yeah he used to write to Kelly at Wentworth prison, even tried unsuccessfully to obtain a visiting order. So gullible.

Is this her? I preferred her when she played Scott Robinson.

https://i.ytimg.com/vi/PyWD429Ggj0/sddefault.jpg?sqp=-oaymwEmCIAFEOAD8quKqQMa8AEB-AH-BIAC4AOKAgwIABABGGUgVShGMA8=&rs=AOn4CLAkOh747Y6YbJUQYzzUOTeEShHHWg

Macca
28-07-2023, 19:44
Yeah I think so. I've not seen that show in more than thirty years.

We always wanted to see someone get put in the steam press, that was the main attraction really. Can't remember if that happened now or not.

That was back when I was living in a house right on top of a hill and all the other houses around had been demolished. It was a bit weird especially when it was dark and foggy which it was a lot of the time.

On the plus side I could pick up three different ITV regions and S4C with just a coat hanger for an aerial.

Pigmy Pony
28-07-2023, 19:44
Things improved when Wentworth started a new, more strict door policy. But not enough to save it from terminal cackness.

https://i2-prod.dailystar.co.uk/incoming/article22476569.ece/ALTERNATES/s615b/0_Wentworths-Kate-Jenkinson-talks-Allies-hot-transformation-as-she-becomes-Top-Dog.jpg

Pigmy Pony
28-07-2023, 19:46
Had to get a new telly to get bbc2.

Was that to do with the '625 lines' thing?

struth
29-07-2023, 05:58
Was that to do with the '625 lines' thing?Yes, UK TV was broadcast on a lower resolution 405. but bbc2 decided to use the euro system of 625 meaning you needed another TV .

Pigmy Pony
29-07-2023, 06:19
Yes, UK TV was broadcast on a lower resolution 405. but bbc2 decided to use the euro system of 625 meaning you needed another TV .

We were quite lucky, my dad worked for a firm called Telehire, and we always had the best tellies. One of them, a giant by sixties standards, had doors like a roll-top desk. Switch-on time was a bit of an event, like going to the pictures but without the bird coming round selling fags off a tray.

struth
29-07-2023, 06:45
we had a tv that shut like a roll top but sideways

https://retropoodles.files.wordpress.com/2018/06/15.jpg

Pigmy Pony
29-07-2023, 06:59
Yeah ours had sideways sliding doors that met in the middle. Probably quite a small telly by today's standards, but when you're only seven or eight everything looked big, even Walnut Whips.

walpurgis
29-07-2023, 07:01
Our first TV had a screen about the size of a slice of toast, I remember watching the Queen's coronation on it (yes, I am that old :)). All the neighbours popped in to watch as it was the only telly in the street.

struth
29-07-2023, 07:16
Yeah ours had sideways sliding doors that met in the middle. Probably quite a small telly by today's standards, but when you're only seven or eight everything looked big, even Walnut Whips.

the doors had a habit of getting stuck so you ended up watching your fav show with half a screen:eek:

Macca
29-07-2023, 07:49
Funny thing about screen size is you get used to it so fast. If I go to my mother's there's a 42'' screen and it looks so small to me for the first hour or so then after that it doesn't register.

Then I go home to 55'' and it looks huge for the first hour, and then again it doesn't register after that.

keep thinking about getting a 65 or a 70 but starting to think it's a waste of money as I'll only get the benefit for an hour or so.

struth
29-07-2023, 07:54
mine is 42 i think or 43. its big enough i think unless your really into your cinema etc, or have a huge room.

CageyH
29-07-2023, 15:19
Used to have a 32" in the man cave, and a 43" in the lounge. I have just bought a 50" for the lounge, so have moved the 43" into the man cave.
Most people wondered why our TV was "so small" until they went into the cinema room with the 100" screen.

But I agree with Macca. You soon get used to the size of the screen. It is the same thing with UHD, HD and SHD. The novelty wears off once you start watching the film rather than looking at the picture quality.

Barry
29-07-2023, 16:11
I saw a huge 8K resolution TV on display in John Lewis. Now that was impressive - and so was the price!

struth
29-07-2023, 16:28
I saw a huge 8K resolution TV on display in John Lewis. Now that was impressive - and so was the price!

i bet it was.. not many 8k's so im guessing it was north of 6k

Macca
29-07-2023, 16:52
i bet it was.. not many 8k's so im guessing it was north of 6k

you can get a 75'' Samsung 8K for £1750 on Amazon. Don't know about the larger ones but 75 is pretty big.

Pigmy Pony
30-07-2023, 13:24
you can get a 75'' Samsung 8K for £1750 on Amazon. Don't know about the larger ones but 75 is pretty big.

Don't see the point. Bugger all to watch in 8K anyway. Let the rich folk buy them all up until the technology becomes more affordable, and there is any 8K content worth watching. I don't think I ever see anything 4K on my telly, but maybe it upscales HD a bit, and that's plenty good enough for me.

Macca
30-07-2023, 13:31
Don't see the point. Bugger all to watch in 8K anyway. Let the rich folk buy them all up until the technology becomes more affordable, and there is any 8K content worth watching. I don't think I ever see anything 4K on my telly, but maybe it upscales HD a bit, and that's plenty good enough for me.

I was fine with 'normal' telly resolution tbh, just pointing out 8K are a lot cheaper than they used to be.

Pigmy Pony
30-07-2023, 13:43
I was fine with 'normal' telly resolution tbh, just pointing out 8K are a lot cheaper than they used to be.

That is quite cheap, certainly less than I thought they would be. But my secondhand as-new LG OLED 55" is all the telly I need. Reduced from £1900 to £600, which is nice.

Macca
30-07-2023, 14:08
That is quite cheap, certainly less than I thought they would be. But my secondhand as-new LG OLED 55" is all the telly I need. Reduced from £1900 to £600, which is nice.

Same here I will wait until it dies, should be able to get 120'' or something for the price of a curry by then.

Pigmy Pony
30-07-2023, 15:14
Same here I will wait until it dies, should be able to get 120'' or something for the price of a curry by then.

And that's a big area that won't need wallpapering or painting, so savings to be made there as well :)

Macca
30-07-2023, 16:48
I decorated when I moved in, you're not telling me I have to do it again at some point?

Yes, a wall of television. Still need dusting though.

Mikeandvan
30-07-2023, 20:51
Back to dating over 50, how do I get me some? I may have to go back to offering student discounts again, for my removal business that is.

Pigmy Pony
31-07-2023, 08:06
Back to dating over 50, how do I get me some? I may have to go back to offering student discounts again, for my removal business that is.

:eek: Students? No no no... where do I start? Music tastes, reality TV shows, PMT, the issue of having children, social media, THEIR FRIENDS, their moods, your stamina...

Better to be offering an OAP discount :) Though them HSL recliners look bloody heavy.

Firebottle
31-07-2023, 10:21
:eek: THEIR FRIENDS,

:lol: You are always funny Steve.

Pigmy Pony
31-07-2023, 10:57
I suppose today's student women have got prettier - when I was in my teens most female students looked like Ginger Baker but without the beard.

But looks aren't everything when you get in from work to find your home full of them, angrily debating plastic in the ocean, your kitchen trashed and your fridge empty :( And don't get me started on the state of the bathroom.

struth
31-07-2023, 12:00
:eek: Students? No no no... where do I start? Music tastes, reality TV shows, PMT, the issue of having children, social media, THEIR FRIENDS, their moods, your stamina...

Better to be offering an OAP discount :) Though them HSL recliners look bloody heavy.

they are.. my mum had one and it near killed me getting it out of house(was an older one mind but also lifted you to standing)... as for their friends...your spot on; not only are students weird, but their friends are always weirder

struth
31-07-2023, 12:13
I suppose today's student women have got prettier - when I was in my teens most female students looked like Ginger Baker but without the beard.

But looks aren't everything when you get in from work to find your home full of them, angrily debating plastic in the ocean, your kitchen trashed and your fridge empty :( And don't get me started on the state of the bathroom.

my brother was a student and so were all his pals and females. not a looker among them either. all talked a load of socialist twaddle that they didnt mean as they were all training to be rich...
my mate and i used to wind them up proper.. must have worked well as up to near before his death he thought i was a tory :D

Macca
31-07-2023, 17:29
I suppose today's student women have got prettier - when I was in my teens most female students looked like Ginger Baker but without the beard.

But looks aren't everything when you get in from work to find your home full of them, angrily debating plastic in the ocean, your kitchen trashed and your fridge empty :( And don't get me started on the state of the bathroom.

I rented a big place off a mate and let out a couple of the rooms to a couple of students I knew. I thought that most of the time they'd be at college and the rest out with their mated but I think because it was a big place with a hi-fi it turned into party central

Quite often I'd come home from a 12 hour shift to find about a dozen of them in the living room listening to young people music (usually Ozrics or The Orb), as was the style at the time.

Sometimes I had to step over a couple of unconscious ones in the hallway as I came in.

I didn't really have an issue with it and I was also able to sell them quite a lot of my cast-off equipment. My girlfriend at the time was less than happy about it though.

Mikeandvan
31-07-2023, 21:24
:eek: Students? No no no... where do I start? Music tastes, reality TV shows, PMT, the issue of having children, social media, THEIR FRIENDS, their moods, your stamina...

Better to be offering an OAP discount :) Though them HSL recliners look bloody heavy.

Yer, they're terrible sofas to move, full of metal.

Lawrence001
03-08-2023, 18:27
But I agree with Macca. You soon get used to the size of the screen. It is the same thing with UHD, HD and SHD. The novelty wears off once you start watching the film rather than looking at the picture quality.

So the same thing as playing music through normal vs fancy DACs?