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Gaz
31-10-2019, 19:01
http://www.uksaabs.co.uk/UKS/viewtopic.php?f=1&t=52037

Particularly the last page

YNWaN
31-10-2019, 19:13
So you’re posting a link to a stupid thread about nothing of importance on an altogether unrelated forum!

walpurgis
31-10-2019, 19:24
:wierdthread:

Pigmy Pony
31-10-2019, 19:49
Perhaps the demise of Saab has left them with nothing much to talk about :D

Gaz
31-10-2019, 20:00
So you’re posting a link to a stupid thread about nothing of importance on an altogether unrelated forum!

Sorry I thought the abstract chat was for anything non hifi related?

If that's not the case could an admin please delete the thread with my apologies

struth
31-10-2019, 20:14
Maybe you should have given folk an idea of why the link etc. Its fairly pointless just sticking a link to a longish thread started about 10 yrs ago on a completely different site, without saying why

Gaz
31-10-2019, 20:16
The purpose was to get views from you guys as to whether or not the term "gay" was derogatory or offensive in the context of the comment.
I was trying to see if anybody did without making the suggestion

Alex_UK
31-10-2019, 20:20
The purpose was to get views from you guys as to whether or not the term "gay" was derogatory or offensive in the context of the comment.
I was trying to see if anybody did without making the suggestion

In the past I would possibly refer to something being “gay” but I wouldn’t now - I think generally we’ve moved on and are much more tolerant and accepting that it is normal to have a same-sex relationship and therefore offensive to degenerate it.

struth
31-10-2019, 20:26
I think among friends, gay or not, but in person, it's fine.
Posting it on a forum etc always opens ones self up to it being misconstrued. Sometimes by prudes, sometimes by agitators. It's become a bit of a minefield tbh.
As much as I disagree with things like homophobia, I also struggle with the perpetual politically correct crew who must be 'right '

Pigmy Pony
31-10-2019, 20:28
Difficult to say - Personally I don't find it offensive and have used the term occasionally, but never publicly and only with friends whom I know share a similar humour.

I know quite a few gay men and women, but I honestly don't know how they feel about it. There's this one lesbian who I will see on Saturday, and maybe I'll ask her if I can pluck up the courage - she's the same height as me but twice as wide. I have a feeling she would be more offended by that last sentence :)

walpurgis
31-10-2019, 20:28
The purpose was to get views from you guys as to whether or not the term "gay" was derogatory or offensive in the context of the comment.
I was trying to see if anybody did without making the suggestion

I suspect that if you asked any motorbike courier if he wore longjohns under his kit in the middle of winter because he was gay, you'd probably get a clump!

Gaz
31-10-2019, 20:34
I think among friends, gay or not, but in person, it's fine.
Posting it on a forum etc always opens ones self up to it being misconstrued. Sometimes by prudes, sometimes by agitators. It's become a bit of a minefield tbh.
As much as I disagree with things like homophobia, I also struggle with the perpetual politically correct crew who must be 'right '

That's my point exactly

If somebody was genuinely offended that would be very different to being told they should be offended by a third party, or that third party being offended on their behalf

Pigmy Pony
31-10-2019, 20:37
I suspect that if you asked any motorbike courier if he wore longjohns under his kit in the middle of winter because he was gay, you'd probably get a clump!

And if that motorbike courier was gay, the clump would hurt just as much. Gay men and women are perfectly able to fight their own battles :)

Joe
01-11-2019, 00:19
It's all part of a massive plot by the Illuminati, Rothschilds, Big Pharma and the Royal Family to turn us into snowflakes via our smartphones. Obvs.

Pigmy Pony
01-11-2019, 06:52
It's all part of a massive plot by the Illuminati, Rothschilds, Big Pharma and the Royal Family to turn us into snowflakes via our smartphones. Obvs.

but the Illuminati do a lot for tourism - about 3 million visitors to Blackpool last year

Gaz
01-11-2019, 09:07
but the Illuminati do a lot for tourism - about 3 million visitors to Blackpool last year

:lol: