Barry I totally get it, I've been the same this last week - order of events when I received it last weekend were, first listen - gobsmacked followed by further sessions where I sat trying to figure it out rather than listen. Today, all afternoon and evening I just listened to my favourite albums - gobsmacked again. I don't know how it's done, and this thread isn't about me promoting it, but it does what those who have it says it does - vanish, completely from the chain - and in the process revealing subtleties, heck even backing vocals, percussive lines etc that simply weren't discernable before.
Like you I need to understand how something works to explain the result - but after today I'm just going to enjoy it and stop questioning it. I initially bought it because I wanted the most transparent attenuator for my system - I have it, without a doubt.
Technics SP10 mk2
Jan Allaerts MC 1 Boron mk1 cart
Miyajima Shilabe cart
Hashimoto HM-X SUT
Siggwan (gimballed not unipivot) Cocobola 12"
Aurorasound Vida LCR Phonostage
The Truth linestage
Dave Slagle Autoformer Volume Controller
Cary 805c SET amps
Audio Note ANe-SPX speakers
Townshend Isolda speaker cables
Cardas Golden Presence interconnects