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I'm Sam.
I'm not sure I understand that. If we can choose to only see "what we want to see" then why can't we choose when watching any other visual stimulous like a video of ourselves?
I understand the mirror image thing could be mildly unusual the first time but most discomfort doesn't come from what our faces look like, how they differ from looking in the mirror, but how we move, parts of our face we can't see in relation to the rest, how we talk etc (things we absolutely cannot see or hear) being different to what we thought and that disparity causing self-conciousness whilst some of us are self-concious already about the mistaken idea of ourselves, let alone the closer-to-reality version on screen.
Looking in the mirror is a mundane and (for most) daily event routinised from a very early age - so routine that we rarely think about it but just concentrate on the job at hand (washing, shaving, combing hair etc...). We don't need to take in all details, just those related to the actions (squeezing the pesky blackhead). The mirror also gives us a very limited and distorted view because of the optical physics involved.
Watching a recorded image is a totally different ballgame.... unless we are taking part in reality TV, the event is exceptional, from a very different set of viewpoints (as you mention) and often encapsulating aspects of our physical self we have never seen before but are suddenly confronted with. Blanking off 'less wholesome' details is much harder than when we look in a mirror, particularly if the viewing is public - thus accentuating the acute self-consciousness that can be experienced at such moments. I've known people who were genuinely phobic about being recorded on video; I'm sure they coped with their daily personal grooming perfectly well, or at least with far less distress.
I don't know is it's still the case but there have been many legendary Hollywood stars who had written in their contract that they could not be filmed from certain angles, particularly in close-up. They did that for a reason
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A friend of mine, back in the late 70s early 80s, had a pair of Quad 57 that I much admired for their fidelity and lack of colouration. - I had cheap but fairly decent Technics SB301 speakers at the time, I think.
1981 rolled round, marriage occurred, and I couldn't resist getting an extra £1k on my 1st house mortgage and buying a pair of the newly released Quad 63 from good old KJ Leisuresound.
After a few weeks of loving my new speakers I went round to my friend's place --- I was genuinely shocked at how coloured the 57s now sounded!
-- maybe the 57s just needed a service / fettle?
FWIW, my take these days is that overall the 57 is the superior speaker.
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