Hi Dave,
Unfortunately the above statement, although well-meant, is somewhat misleading and doesn't tell the whole story; ironically rather like some measurements in relation to hi-fi!
I see no reason, mate, to add anything further to the text Neil quoted from Our Ethos. Having read that, my position on this matter, and in this instance that of AOS, should be crystal clear to everyone.
Hi Chippy,
Please read the bit that I've highlighted in bold.
The *point* is that, however well-intended or how much you think you're right, telling someone "you're fooling yourself" is
unbelievably arrogant - and 99% of the time is liable to get someone's back up. Even if you don't mean this to happen, trust me, as sure as eggs is eggs, that's exactly what
will happen... It's human nature.
With the best respect in the world, who on earth do you think you are to judge people in that way??