Yes, cats are better.
Marco.
Yes, cats are better.
Marco.
Main System
Turntable: Heavily-modified Technics SL-1210MK5G [Mike New bearing/ETP platter/Paul Hynes SR7 PSU & reg mods]. Funk Firm APM Achromat/Nagaoka GL-601 Crystal Record Weight/Isonoe feet & boots/Ortofon RS-212D/Denon DL-103GL in Denon PCL-300 headshell with Funk Firm Houdini/Kondo SL-115 pure-silver cartridge leads.
Paul Hynes MC head amp/SR5 PSU. Also modded Lentek head amp/Denon AU-310 SUT.
Other Cartridges: Nippon Columbia (NOS 1987) Denon DL-103. USA-made Shure SC35C with NOS stylus. Goldring G820 with NOS stylus. Shure M55E with NOS stylus.
CD Player: Audiocom-modified Sony X-777ES/DAS-R1 DAC.
Tape Deck: Tandberg TCD 310, fully restored and recalibrated as new, by RDE, plus upgraded with heads from the TCD-420a. Also with matching TM4 Norway microphones.
Preamps: Heavily-modified Croft Charisma-X. LDR Stereo Coffee. Power Amps: Tube Distinctions Copper Amp fitted with Tungsol KT-150s. Quad 306.
Cables & Sundries: Mark Grant HDX1 interconnects and digital coaxial cable, plus Mark Grant 6mm UP-LCOFC Van Damme speaker cable. MCRU 'Ultimate' mains leads. Lehmann clone headphone amp with vintage Koss PRO-4AAA headphones.
Tube Distinctions digital noise filter. VPI HW16.5 record cleaning machine.
Speakers: Tannoy 15MGs in Lockwood cabinets with modified crossovers. 1967 Celestion Ditton 15.
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And dogs!
It is impossible for anything digital to sound analogue, because it isn't analogue!
Location: Torquay, Devon.
Posts: 5,684
I'm Shane.
Main System
Turntable: Heavily-modified Technics SL-1210MK5G [Mike New bearing/ETP platter/Paul Hynes SR7 PSU & reg mods]. Funk Firm APM Achromat/Nagaoka GL-601 Crystal Record Weight/Isonoe feet & boots/Ortofon RS-212D/Denon DL-103GL in Denon PCL-300 headshell with Funk Firm Houdini/Kondo SL-115 pure-silver cartridge leads.
Paul Hynes MC head amp/SR5 PSU. Also modded Lentek head amp/Denon AU-310 SUT.
Other Cartridges: Nippon Columbia (NOS 1987) Denon DL-103. USA-made Shure SC35C with NOS stylus. Goldring G820 with NOS stylus. Shure M55E with NOS stylus.
CD Player: Audiocom-modified Sony X-777ES/DAS-R1 DAC.
Tape Deck: Tandberg TCD 310, fully restored and recalibrated as new, by RDE, plus upgraded with heads from the TCD-420a. Also with matching TM4 Norway microphones.
Preamps: Heavily-modified Croft Charisma-X. LDR Stereo Coffee. Power Amps: Tube Distinctions Copper Amp fitted with Tungsol KT-150s. Quad 306.
Cables & Sundries: Mark Grant HDX1 interconnects and digital coaxial cable, plus Mark Grant 6mm UP-LCOFC Van Damme speaker cable. MCRU 'Ultimate' mains leads. Lehmann clone headphone amp with vintage Koss PRO-4AAA headphones.
Tube Distinctions digital noise filter. VPI HW16.5 record cleaning machine.
Speakers: Tannoy 15MGs in Lockwood cabinets with modified crossovers. 1967 Celestion Ditton 15.
Protect your HUMAN RIGHTS and REFUSE ANY *MANDATORY* VACCINE FOR COVID-19!
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Location: Granes - Haut Vallee de l'aude - EU
Posts: 2,831
I'm Richard.
Fortunately none of my friends (apart from the pros) are remotely interested in hifi. They all think i'm completely bonkers, so no risk of jealousy there. Divorce, by contrast does weed out the chaff. And much better for it.
Cheers Marco Sorry to keep you waiting for waiting.
Thanks for your support guys. really appreciated. It really has knocked me a little. I simply don't understand it all and it's all left me somewhat wary of people. I often think that people lose sight of what is important and become too focused on their obsessions. I thought i would bore you all with my experience as i want it to serve as a warning to others. Family and true friends are important. Hi-fi equipment is only important when it is your main passion though not s important than family and friends.
Now that i have been outcast by people who pretended to be my friends i am gaining strength from people who are true to me. Thanks to all the folks who replied to this thread.
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People turn to poison quick as lager turns to piss.
No problem, Hesketh. It's good to get things off of your chest. Forgive me, though, as I'm a little confused. You wrote:
Why did they both blank you? That bit is unclear. Were you spending more money than they were, perhaps?"Over the years i found out that a lot of it was down to Hi-Fi matters. I couldn't bring myself to believe it. One of these people was a person who had known me from childhood and very close indeed. In recent months i happened to be in the my local dealer in Stockton on Tees (By far the best hifi dealer i have ever dealt with.) and two of my dear friends of years gone by were there, I was blanked by both. This is a pityful tale and from what i have been lead to believe was caused by petty jelousy."
Yet you also stated that:
So if their equipment was far better than yours, what exactly were they jealous of? Your account of what happened at the dealer doesn't really explain this, so perhaps you could clarify? It's just that I can't see where this apparent jealousy has arisen from..."I know that their hifi equipment is far better in many respects than mine."
Marco.
Main System
Turntable: Heavily-modified Technics SL-1210MK5G [Mike New bearing/ETP platter/Paul Hynes SR7 PSU & reg mods]. Funk Firm APM Achromat/Nagaoka GL-601 Crystal Record Weight/Isonoe feet & boots/Ortofon RS-212D/Denon DL-103GL in Denon PCL-300 headshell with Funk Firm Houdini/Kondo SL-115 pure-silver cartridge leads.
Paul Hynes MC head amp/SR5 PSU. Also modded Lentek head amp/Denon AU-310 SUT.
Other Cartridges: Nippon Columbia (NOS 1987) Denon DL-103. USA-made Shure SC35C with NOS stylus. Goldring G820 with NOS stylus. Shure M55E with NOS stylus.
CD Player: Audiocom-modified Sony X-777ES/DAS-R1 DAC.
Tape Deck: Tandberg TCD 310, fully restored and recalibrated as new, by RDE, plus upgraded with heads from the TCD-420a. Also with matching TM4 Norway microphones.
Preamps: Heavily-modified Croft Charisma-X. LDR Stereo Coffee. Power Amps: Tube Distinctions Copper Amp fitted with Tungsol KT-150s. Quad 306.
Cables & Sundries: Mark Grant HDX1 interconnects and digital coaxial cable, plus Mark Grant 6mm UP-LCOFC Van Damme speaker cable. MCRU 'Ultimate' mains leads. Lehmann clone headphone amp with vintage Koss PRO-4AAA headphones.
Tube Distinctions digital noise filter. VPI HW16.5 record cleaning machine.
Speakers: Tannoy 15MGs in Lockwood cabinets with modified crossovers. 1967 Celestion Ditton 15.
Protect your HUMAN RIGHTS and REFUSE ANY *MANDATORY* VACCINE FOR COVID-19!
Also **SAY NO** to unjust 'vaccine passports' or certificates, which are totally incompatible with a FREE society!!!
because every time i bought something different they went and bought something far more elaborate and expensive. One upmanship at its worst.
People turn to poison quick as lager turns to piss.
Oh dear. that would really be quite pathetic if jealousy was the reason for their actions. Jealousy can be a poison, but I've not encountered that in the context of a strong friendship or with Hi-Fi. I am alway delighted for people I know to get something that they've wanted for a long time.
If that had happened to me, I would certainly have not let it lie, and would have sought them out in order to find out what the reason for their behaviour is. Are you absolutely sure there isn't something else going on between you?. Take it from me (who can do no wrong in my own eyes ), that others don't necessarily share that view and sometimes offence can be caused without you realising. So here is my crash course to fixing problems with friendships or any relationship that matters:
- Firstly, set aside your own hurt feelings and anger towards them
- State your committment to the relationship, and tell them why you value it
- Express willingness and interest in sorting it out because you value their friendship and want to right any wrongs.
- Listen to what they have to say and don't judge whether it is valid (it is to them)
- Identify what you should or could have done to have consistent with your own values and principles and where you went wrong, and re-commitment to the relationship
- Identify with the impact your actions had on them, and apologise for that genuinely
- Leave your ego at home
I'm only saying this because one of the people you mentioned seems to have been a life-long friend, and we don't have too many of those...It can be a very powerful approach to detoxifying damaged relationships and you would be amazed what can be achieved, even where things have festered for far too long. If you care then you owe it to yourself to do what you can to sort it out. At least you won't be wondering what might have happened if you had tried.
Of course, you could be right and they could just be dicks, in which case, hey-ho
Cheers,
Alex
Last edited by AlexM; 03-09-2013 at 16:57.
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I'm Allen.
This does not only happen with HiFi
It happens in other walks of life as I have found out in the past
I can sympathies with you
People can be so strange at times
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