She was.
She was always manipulative and had one of those "resting bitch" faces years before they were a thing :
http://1v1d1e1lmiki1lgcvx32p49h8fe.w...e-symptoms.jpg
We used to work together and he's actually a very funny, jolly and rather portly chap - big boned is the phrase I'm looking for ;).
Thing was, sometimes he'd be a right mardy so-and-so, really grumpy and snappy and we'd ask what was wrong and it was the same every time : they're not getting on at home, she's a bitch, etc ..
This would go on for days .. until miraculously - and like clockwork, once a month - he'd saunter in with a coffee for everyone and a box of doughnuts with a massive grin on his face.
Eventually I just asked him WTF was going on once I'd identified there was a pattern to his behaviour.
Turns out she'd .. er .. pleasure him orally once a month and that was what did it.
She didn't like doing it but relented round about payday.
Funny that ..
Sad thing is, they had three daughters and she turned one of them against him. The other two are fine, but the one bought everything she said and hardly sees him. It's a real shame because they're all still in their teens and it breaks him up inside.
She's the spit of her mother too, which can't make it any easier ..
I know some men are complete and utter tossers who'll sh*g anything that moves, but equally there are some really horrible women out there who'll use a man for all she can before moving on to the next.
Every year that passes, the more I think living in the western world resembles that Two Ronnies mini-series, The Worm That Turned :
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GcMd1F1acSo&t=8s
Before you all think I'm a psycho misogynist, I can assure you I'm not : I really enjoy the company of women and have three lifelong female friends who I see a lot of and often go drinking with, despite them or me being in a relationship.
It's just the bad ones that I don't like .. :eyebrows: